8 Must-Know Tips to Remember When Trying to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back

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Trying to get your ex boyfriend back after a breakup can be a challenge.  It doesn't matter if you got dumped or you did the dumping, trying to convince him to come back won't be that easy.  Fortunately, there are important tips to remember to help you with this task.

1. Get your head straight

You're not going to get your ex boyfriend back if your head is filled with negative thoughts.  Feeling sorry for yourself and thinking that you're the victim here will only make you more depressed.  You need to will yourself to be strong if you want to win back his affections.

2. What caused the breakup?

If you want to fix things, you first need to figure out what caused the breakup.  You can't fix things if you don't know what broke you apart in the first place.

3. Apologize

You need to apologize for your mistakes and admit that you were wrong.  Again, it doesn't matter who broke it off.  An apology shows that you care enough and value him enough.  It also shows that you're mature because it's not easy to admit to one's mistakes and this is something he won't easily forget.

4. Accept that it's over for now

If you keep denying that it's over then you're refusing to believe that things need to change if you want the relationship to work.  Wishing isn't going to make him come back to you and neither is dwelling on the past.  Focus on the present and try to grieve so that you will find the strength to make things right again.

5. Don't nag your ex

Pestering your ex boyfriend to come back to you will only make him more annoyed.  He's not going to want to come back to an obsessive girlfriend.  No, if you want him to come back then you're going to have to back off and give him space.

6. Avoid contact

It's essential not to call your ex if the breakup is recent.  No matter what you tell yourself, you're not going to find comfort with hearing his voice.  You will end up missing him even more and you'll be reminded of what you've lost.  In the end, you'll be more miserable and he'll probably feel smug or think that you're needy because you can't stand it if he's not there with you.

7. Look for signs that he still cares

There's a good chance that he's not over you too so look for signs that your ex still loves you.  This will help you figure out what to do and if it's safe to try to win him back. 

8. Focus on yourself

How are you going to get your ex boyfriend back if you're focusing on yourself?  By being a better person and more confident individual.  It beats being miserable and sulky.  Besides, if you focus on gaining back your self-esteem, then you become more attractive.  Then he's start to see what he lost and maybe even regret letting you go.
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